Comments on: Invisible boundaries - my version

By: வெங்கி

வெங்கி — Wed, 06 Jul 2005 19:03:00 +0000

Hi Karthik,
This is my first time here and I found your writing to be great. The flow is simply superb. I could hardly stop reading your posts.

After reading this one on Invisible boundaries, I thought I would share with you what I have written about being understood by others in one of my posts.

http://theydal.blogspot.com/2005/06/blog-post_06.html

I dont know whether that makes sense.

By: வெங்கி

வெங்கி — Wed, 06 Jul 2005 19:03:00 +0000

I have also blogrolled you.

By: RS

RS — Tue, 05 Jul 2005 06:51:00 +0000

makes sense

By: Prabu Karthik

Prabu Karthik — Mon, 04 Jul 2005 01:56:00 +0000

RS,

hugh prather - heard abt this book, seen it but yet to read it.

i think u talked abt the magic in a relationship being lost bcos of the filters in each persons psyche and the consequent subjective interpretations about what the other expressed.

but that magic can be regained when our loved ones see what we wanted to convey truth on their own without us explaining it.

i have experienced it and so are many people who have been around me for so long.

am i making sense?

By: Prabu Karthik

Prabu Karthik — Mon, 04 Jul 2005 01:51:00 +0000

thennavan,

apt a paatu solla ungalai vitta aaal kidayadhu:)

By: RS

RS — Mon, 04 Jul 2005 01:32:00 +0000

P~K, your version is a different interpretation from my version but interestingly different.

Quoting from Hugh Prather’s, notes to myself: “No one is wrong. At most someone is uninformed. If I think a man is wrong, either I am unaware of something or he is. So, unless I want to play a superiority game I had best find out what he is looking at.

“You’re wrong” means “I dont understand you” - I’m not seeing what you’re seeing. But there is nothing wrong with you, you are simply not me and that’s not wrong.”

By: thennavan

thennavan — Sun, 03 Jul 2005 13:56:00 +0000

Thaayum pillaiyum ondraanaalum
Vaayum vayirum veru

appadeengaradhai personal angle-lerndu sollitteenga.

By: ioiio

ioiio — Sun, 03 Jul 2005 11:02:00 +0000

dho paarraaa yaaru yaara tharudhalainnu solradhu.. nee dhaan andha listla no.1

By: Prabu Karthik

Prabu Karthik — Sun, 03 Jul 2005 10:23:00 +0000

narayanan sir,

avlo dhaan matter:)

By: Narayanan Venkitu

Narayanan Venkitu — Sun, 03 Jul 2005 07:52:00 +0000

Problem lies here : If what I am going to say is going to be interpreted in a different way then so be it.

That’s were society comes in…I mean others around you…trying to interpret you…and therby causing a mess.!

IMHO - Don’t care about the society as long as you feel what you are saying / doing is correct.