1. Pre Marital sex is here!. That’s the truth. There is no denying it. I’m not debating whether that’s right or wrong. That’s another thread. The purists versus the liberals thread.

2. the fact is that Pre marital sex is here. That’s the gist of what Kushboo said (not me!) Its NOT just metros or Mumbai or Delhi that the “pre marital sex” is happening. There are also extra marital going on all over India

3. *Tamil Nadu is NO exception*. we are not some island 1000s of mile away from India. We are not backyard of bihar. TN is an in place now. We are very much into the mainstream. There are surveys that show that approx 40% of college students have had sex before marriage !!! Now please don’t come back and tell me ONLY MEN had sex, and that too all by themselves…

4. Tamil movies have as much sex portrayed in them as bollywood movies. In fact there is a great competition there in showing more sex

5. What happens in Indian cities gets noticed and has a multiplier effect. It’s soon followed by others in smaller towns and villages

6. The dress, the dance, the music… the cinema … these have always moved from cities to towns to villages

7. So would this “sex” thing move to every place

8. Womens lib is calling this “freedom of expression” and *supporting Kushboo*
http://www.hindu.com/2005/11/18/stories/2005111817091400.htm

9. So to me it looks like Kushboo has a point. *Men who expect their wife to be a virgin are fools*

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thanks to our hero worshipping tamil culture an avg tamilian is always looked down upon by our north indian brothers…

I too feel there is nothing wrong in what Khusboo said. She gave this interview after a survey finding that certain percentage of the youth population was involved in pre-marital sex. So given this trend, the next best advice you could probably give to saying a ‘no-no’ to sex, would be to have safe sex.

About the ‘karpu’ episode, there have been numerous cases of rape, sexual assault in TN. So if these victims wished to marry? would there no marriage life for them just because they lost their ‘karpu’? And these people are supposedly the ‘murpokku sindhanai’ group. Heights of hypocracy!!

the current happeneings are all stage managed.

the real tragedy is, this kushboo just goes to show how hypocritical we are.

>>Marriage and family values we need these things, Prabhu.

Then were do we drawline between moral and immoral.

These lines did add to my confusion.

Ofcourse its your opinion, what I am wondering is where did I give you the idea/impression that I am against you or against your opinion.

i am nobody to justify some x or y.

The situation u r saying has got more to do with responsibility than morality.

Nobody said marry late to the younger generation. but u find more and more people getting married in the late 20s early 30s. why? yenna avangalluku theriyum nalla padikanum, oru nalla velai la utkaranum appuram dhaan kalyanam. idhukku enna moral policing thevai pattudhu?

As long as the persons involved are major, its their responsibility to think and act appropriately.

we are making 2 assumptions
that all children in the family setup in india have a great, peaceful life.

That all married couples are happy. India la divorce rate kammi not bcos they are happy but bcos they have no other option.

Again the result - it depends on case to case basis.

i am not here to glorify western culture or the lack of it. All i am saying is, reality is in fact different from what we assume to be.

lastly as u rightly said, the topic is why the hell should she go out of tamil nadu bcos of this.

Its after all her right to speak.

Another thing, whatever i wrote is my opinion. en opiniona en blog la sollalena vera enge solradhu:))