Points to Ponder
Call this what you may.
Why is that on an average, the gap between what a girl says and thinks is most of the times as high as 180 deg?
In my opinion the only way to know a girl is by her actions and NEVER by her words.
Occasionally i don the role of Agony uncle and i often feel ‘Man, if only i had brains enough, i would first and foremost write a patch to all the guy’s brains so that he compiles and interprets Girls ++ (a language like c++) correctly.
For eg. the words and the meaning to be interpreted are given in braces.
“You are such a nice guy , but…” (You, moron)
“One day our love will win” (Hm, wait for some more years. we’ll see)
“Lets be friends” (Gone case)
“Ayyo naan padikavey illa” (Supera padichirukken - this applies to padipps guys too.)
“You are such a nice guy” after some help.(Ilichavaaya, ipdiye iru)
“Broadminded” (My money will be my money, you money will be our money, ok va?)
“I dont know” (I dont think its going to work out).
If a girl says ‘ivan en best friend’ about a guy and actually does some work for him,
chances are, its not just friendhsip 
(a borderline case at the minimum )
It usually depends on the kind of work done by the girl relative to the work done for all her unambigous friends, greater the work, greater the probability of green signal.
Of course the default line will be usually “Just a friend” till its all official 
My suggestion for guys is, interpret the signals and decide whether its caution, danger, amber or straight green:)
Any opinions to the contrary?
December 18th, 2005 at 11:14 am
Umm…Kalyanathukku munnadi ivvlavu thathuvam about Girls endraal….after 10 years??
Kadavule..
PK vai kaappathu.!!
December 18th, 2005 at 2:24 pm
Enna sir,
Experience pesudho…eppadiyo engaLa madhiri pasangaLukku indha vishayatha solli enga kanna therandhadhukku thanks
December 18th, 2005 at 5:41 pm
There was an interview with actor Madhavan some time back. One of the questions was about the things he didn’t like about females. Madhavan said that their (females’) body language does not betray their real feelings. I think he even said that most of the time their real feelings are just the opposite of their facial expression or body language.
Sanian Sagadai
December 18th, 2005 at 9:10 pm
nice observations..and funny interpretations…
aanaal…ellam unmai..:)
romba experience pola ungalukku…
December 18th, 2005 at 10:20 pm
Something off the topic: When are you going to update your photoblog?? Grrr….
December 18th, 2005 at 10:44 pm
@NV Sir
kavalaye padadheenga. naan pozhachuppen. adaan ivlo vivarama irukeen la:D
@balaji
sondha experience laam illa. but there are some patterns in the way ppl complain abt girls:D
December 18th, 2005 at 10:50 pm
@anonymous
actions in the sense like what
they consciously do is what i meant
body language - i think girls like fun, light harmless flirt. again my perception i dunno.
@anand
enakku experience kedayadhu. other persons pain is sometimes your lesson:)
@jo
aplogies boss. will do that. maybe i need to post my dakshinnchuitra fotos. will do that,
December 19th, 2005 at 1:29 am
pudhu template, pudhu profile photo…pramaadham..kalakkarey PK!!!
December 19th, 2005 at 12:39 pm
Naan sirikuratha protest panratha illeh support panratha?
Hummm oh yes women like going around the bush - but then thats y u guys like those kind of women right? ;p the harder to catch the sweeter the prize?
Maathikitingehla?! ;p
December 19th, 2005 at 4:38 pm
@sundaresan
engeyo keeta pera irukkey?:D
@visith
seri seri rombo kovichukadheenga:D
December 20th, 2005 at 12:23 pm
How come I missed this Post?
Spectacular:-)
Probably I was lost interpreting one of those lines
with best wishes
Suman