Comments on: Thanks, but no thanks http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/ Rombo nallavan Mon, 21 May 2012 18:20:48 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.1 By: expertdabbler http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21818 expertdabbler Thu, 05 Jul 2007 04:37:44 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21818 gopi, freeya vidu da :) visith, I think you handled your last India trip and the bloggers meet @ mocha pretty well :) gopi,
freeya vidu da :)

visith,
I think you handled your last India trip and the bloggers meet @ mocha pretty well :)

]]> By: Visithra http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21817 Visithra Thu, 05 Jul 2007 03:09:37 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21817 I agree - if you can;t meet someone you shouldnt tell them ure coming or that you'll call - ppl have lives - they can't be cancelling their plans for you n then to find out later that u cant make it or they should set a time n date n meet everyone at once i think ppl can understand delays but not cancelling without notice - or courtesy to inform they cant make it - thats just ego i tend to meet up with friends in diff states n countries this way - i do tell them i might be coming n if i can meet them ill call them - one reason i call to check before hand is to ensure theyre there and free to make plans n not obliged to cancel their plans for me I agree - if you can;t meet someone you shouldnt tell them ure coming or that you’ll call - ppl have lives - they can’t be cancelling their plans for you n then to find out later that u cant make it

or they should set a time n date n meet everyone at once

i think ppl can understand delays but not cancelling without notice - or courtesy to inform they cant make it - thats just ego

i tend to meet up with friends in diff states n countries this way - i do tell them i might be coming n if i can meet them ill call them - one reason i call to check before hand is to ensure theyre there and free to make plans n not obliged to cancel their plans for me

]]> By: Gopi http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21646 Gopi Mon, 02 Jul 2007 18:28:03 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21646 Hooh hooh.. is this post for me? or am I thinking too much.. ? Anyways, forgive me da.. no more itinerary emails to you.. ;) Hooh hooh.. is this post for me? or am I thinking too much.. ? Anyways, forgive me da.. no more itinerary emails to you.. ;)

]]> By: expertdabbler http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21617 expertdabbler Mon, 02 Jul 2007 06:46:55 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21617 subha, nee samarthu! :) subha,

nee samarthu! :)

]]> By: expertdabbler http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21615 expertdabbler Mon, 02 Jul 2007 06:44:59 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21615 NV sir, Knowing you, i'm sure u wud've called/mailed jeevan to say yr sitn. i'm perfectly fine with that. Onnume pannama, ooruku poittu,'I've reached safely' nu group mail podravangalai kanda kaduppu ayduven.. NV sir,

Knowing you, i’m sure u wud’ve called/mailed jeevan to say yr sitn. i’m perfectly fine with that.

Onnume pannama, ooruku poittu,’I've reached safely’ nu group mail podravangalai kanda kaduppu ayduven..

]]> By: expertdabbler http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21614 expertdabbler Mon, 02 Jul 2007 06:43:11 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21614 sundar narayanan i dont know i'm being fair or not. my point is, sonna eep up paanum ilena gam nu vandhutu poidanum. why vetti formality? i know one friend of mine - he is also sundar. very cool guy. ingai varumbodhu he will never send out unnecessary mails. he'll come here and once he thinks he is free, he will call me, we will meet somewhere. or straightaway 'machi indha dhadavai meet panna mudiyadhu' nu solliduvaan... if he is free he does not mind coming even to my office to see me. mathabadi ipdi vettiya group mail podradhu, formaility ku meet panlaam nu solradhu ellam ellam totally unnecessary nu thonudhu.. sundar narayanan

i dont know i’m being fair or not. my point is, sonna eep up paanum ilena gam nu vandhutu poidanum. why vetti formality?

i know one friend of mine - he is also sundar. very cool guy.
ingai varumbodhu he will never send out unnecessary mails. he’ll come here and once he thinks he is free, he will call me, we will meet somewhere. or straightaway ‘machi indha dhadavai meet panna mudiyadhu’ nu solliduvaan…
if he is free he does not mind coming even to my office to see me.

mathabadi ipdi vettiya group mail podradhu, formaility ku meet panlaam nu solradhu ellam ellam totally unnecessary nu thonudhu..

]]> By: Subha http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21598 Subha Mon, 02 Jul 2007 00:29:58 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21598 yen indha kovam? :) inime naan india vandhaal jakradhaiya irukken..:) yen indha kovam? :) inime naan india vandhaal jakradhaiya irukken..:)

]]> By: Narayanan http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21533 Narayanan Sun, 01 Jul 2007 06:20:11 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21533 PK, I was very happy that I could meet you. Honestly, I wanted to spend a few more hours, but somehow that didn't happen ! I can't forget your Mom's dinner ! I wanted to spend some more time with Keerthi, Vatsan. Also wanted to meet with Jeevan. There is always a next time! PK, I was very happy that I could meet you. Honestly, I wanted to spend a few more hours, but somehow that didn’t happen ! I can’t forget your Mom’s dinner !

I wanted to spend some more time with Keerthi, Vatsan. Also wanted to meet with Jeevan.

There is always a next time!

]]> By: sundar narayanan http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21485 sundar narayanan Sat, 30 Jun 2007 19:52:17 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21485 your observations are very true. but there are two sides to this. I actually wrote a long comment (then realized I should just post it). :) there are realistic and unrealistic expecations on both sides, partly because this is one of those things where no one sees the other's situation in true light! nevertheless, you are right. Canceling an appointment without notification is a big no no! your observations are very true.

but there are two sides to this. I actually wrote a long comment (then realized I should just post it).

:)

there are realistic and unrealistic expecations on both sides, partly because this is one of those things where no one sees the other’s situation in true light! nevertheless, you are right. Canceling an appointment without notification is a big no no!

]]> By: prabukarthik http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21451 prabukarthik Sat, 30 Jun 2007 11:21:25 +0000 http://expertdabbler.com/2007/06/29/thanks-but-no-thanks/#comment-21451 keerthi, Last wekeend change of plan nu therinja udaney correct a call panni sonney la? adhu panra varaikum this post is not for you :) keerthi,

Last wekeend change of plan nu therinja udaney correct a call panni sonney la?
adhu panra varaikum this post is not for you :)

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